It's not what you ask for; it's where you ask from; ask well...
...whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things. Philippians 4:8
"I will give the best of my LOVE, always, everywhere, and to everyone, and I will do so Now.” “I CHOOSE, LOVE NOW”
No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE. No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE